DESPERATION

Going back to the times when we were pretty much young and had no insight etal into the outside world, we had a completely different mentality altogether. you might call it your stupidity, or childishness, or vulnerabilty to get prone to every other thing that facinated you, or any other thing, but yes, the fact is, we evolve. we evolve drastically by the time you turn 18 or so and then everything changes. for instance, the very first fantasy of possessing a bike or a mobile phone when you were 15 or 16 made you feel like a king of the entire city, an ultimate way of seducing every hot girl on the planet, made you feel independant. then later, it becomes an everyday part of your life, later it cuts down to your necessity.

This logic can be applied to every damn thing in the world, but one. Yes, theres always a but in everything. the place where we never evolve, or to be more crude, we never grow up….is our desperation to fall in love. every guy or a girl from the time they enter their carnal age, never stop thinking or dreaming of falling in love or being loved. in the beginning, it starts as a fantasy just to talk to a guy/girl, then your fantasy scales new heights and now you just want to be with him/her, then later you want to be loved. But why??? why is it so important for a person to have an emotional support of another person who him/herself is going through the same phase? One of the major reasons might be attributed to the new trend of movies which showcases romance in a completely new light, but forget it, i dont wanna talk like your dad now.

The reason is, you are so fickle minded at this age that you presume that just by having a girlfriend, i can be more confident, i will have something to flaunt, it’ll make me look cool as others. and for others, it might give them an emotional or mental support which none of their friends or parents ever gave him in their entire life. and for most of the others, they just wanna get laid. Yes, bet me. There are just these three reasons. and i also bet you, most of the couples who are in “love” might not completely agree to me. They will for sure give me dozens of other explanations which might be strong enough to satisfy themselves diplomatically but not others.

But believe me, if you want to get over this so called emotional fantasy, all you have to do is think, indulge and evolve in other aspects of life which are equally interesting if you have that insight. your work, your future, and most importantly, your friends and family; these are the real things and people in the world which will always be with you. I am not saying that loving someone or indulging in some sort of flings and affairs is wrong. actually it sounds pretty interesting. . I may not be mature enough to spread gyan darshan about this very topic. Even i belong to your age group. Even i do feel the same things what you people feel. But all i wanna say is: come on folks….There are better things in life. like better girls

~ by sarfarazssk on August 30, 2008.